I know there are women out there who struggle with an addiction to pornography. I am not sure if any read this blog, but I just felt compelled to say that I do not mean to be insensitive or ignorant to your perspective.
I know when I write here I imply that it is always the husband who is the addict and the wife who is the [non] victim. That is the simplest way for me to write, but I often catch myself thinking from only that paradigm.
I am aware that this is not always the case. My heart goes out to anyone, woman or man, who desires a different life than the one they are living in the bonds of addiction. I hope I have not offended or frustrated anyone by the language I use here. But it is what I know, it is the situation I am familiar with, and so it is the most comfortable perspective for me, keeping in mind that it is a generalization and not true to every other situation.
My apologies if you have felt ignored or disregarded.