Someone on the forum shared the link to this video. It was really good, very informative and validating. My only disappointment was that the divorced woman they interviewed said she felt like she had done everything she could to "fix" the problem, and I only hope that she has let go of the idea that it was hers to fix. I admire her very much for her wisdom during the experience, courage to share, and the overall kindness she still feels for her ex-husband.
Anyway- it is 28 minutes so watch it when you have the chance. It talks about the negative effects of pornography, particularly on relationships, hope for overcoming addiction in a marriage, and how to prevent future problems with pornography addiction in our children.
My favorite line regarding discussing the problem with our children:
"Every family is different, every child is different. You decide what the right age is, then subtract three years and then you are only a year late."
Let me know what you think of it.