18 April 2014

Be Kind Be Brave

Another Camp Scabs is in the books.  My cup runneth over with gratitude for the opportunity I have to meet such remarkable women. I really can’t get over that.  I’ve recently started reading Glennon Melton’s book and she talks about how we are truly living when we let our walls down and share honestly with our friends and in our relationships.  Camp has a way of making that feel natural and even though it’s not easy, it’s fulfilling. 

Thank you to all the women who have had courage to take such a risk. 

There is a tsunami coming.  I’m not sure exactly what it will look like, but it’s a wave of knowledge, empowered women, education, bravery and change.

Forgive my clichés, but YOU can be a part of this wave. 

Never in my life have I been so convinced of the power of the individual.  If we have the courage to work from the bottom up, God will work from the top down.  

Years ago, before this was part of my life, I didn’t know what I didn’t know.  It’s taken years for me to understand the lies of my husband’s pornography addiction. 

Unfortunately the world is full of people who still believe those lies.  They don’t know what they don’t know.  And if it took me, in my brokenness and desperation, THIS long to start to understand the truth about sexual addiction, it will surely take patience and persistence as we watch those around us learn and understand. 

But we can be the instrument of change.  There is a quote that is often attributed to Ghandi that says “Be the change you wish to see in the world.”  But what Ghandi actually said was this-

“If we could change ourselves, the tendencies in the world would also change. As a man changes his own nature, so does the attitude of the world change towards him. ... We need not wait to see what others do.”

If it’s compassion we are looking for from the world, let’s offer more compassion to the world.  If it’s knowledge and understanding, let’s boldly share ours.

I’m not necessarily talking about shouting from the rooftops, although if that feels right to you, go with it.  I’m talking about our private conversations with our therapists, our church leaders, our friends. 

If you don't know where to begin, begin by being willing to begin. Send an email, open up to a friend, trust your gut.  


Let’s not wait to see what others do, let’s follow our hearts and share our truth.   

6 comments:

  1. LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS POST!!! Wish I could have gone to camp again. I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU, GIRL!!!!!

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  2. Exciting and nerve wracking isn't it? Being a part of this Tsunami. Love your words. They help me to be Brave!

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  3. Love this post too! What did you guys do at the top of that mountain? Are you all wearing helmets? It looks like something adventurous and I so wish I could have come to camp again. Love you Jane and April for making this happen. Love the encouragement too. I'm slowly but surely moving toward being more open to sharing! -- June B

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  4. Love this :) I'm willing to begin! We all have knowledge and compassion to share. Thank you for sharing yours with me!

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  5. Pioneer women turned tsuanmi, one drop at a time. Oh, yeah.

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