tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4105200008559051844.post6091260909286335939..comments2023-10-07T08:28:40.726-07:00Comments on Learning from My Husband's Pornography Addiction: InsightJanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15354593791540400671noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4105200008559051844.post-76647823023720499972011-11-07T11:39:06.293-08:002011-11-07T11:39:06.293-08:00A family member of mine bore her testimony yesterd...A family member of mine bore her testimony yesterday and mentioned turning to Christ when life isn't the ideal you want it to be. I almost started crying, because in my mind, their life IS ideal. And it hit me that someone I felt I knew so well obviously was dealing with things I didn't know about. (Duh. It goes the other way, too. She has no idea about our struggle.) I can't believe after all this I'm still forgetting that everyone has secret struggles. I, too, am trying to judge less (or envy less in terms of looking at people whose lives seem to be "ideal").Machttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16251056309107388969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4105200008559051844.post-43758935683693635432011-11-04T21:26:57.602-07:002011-11-04T21:26:57.602-07:00I too struggled with being critcal of others befor...I too struggled with being critcal of others before I found out my husband was a sex addict. Now I am more aware of other people's pain...and less likely to judge them. I wish it haden't taken this amount of pain to humble me...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4105200008559051844.post-14491413851870885812011-11-04T18:18:22.308-07:002011-11-04T18:18:22.308-07:00what a wonderful post. Thank you for sharing. I&...what a wonderful post. Thank you for sharing. I'm new to this whole experience, and I'm kind of ashamed to say this wasn't something that had crossed my mind yet, in trying to think of things I can learn from the situation. Unconditional love -- very critical.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com