tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4105200008559051844.post2883606364058467705..comments2023-10-07T08:28:40.726-07:00Comments on Learning from My Husband's Pornography Addiction: Step 3: Trust in GodJanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15354593791540400671noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4105200008559051844.post-72049693171366370632012-05-03T14:15:46.439-07:002012-05-03T14:15:46.439-07:00I've been mulling over the words that summed u...I've been mulling over the words that summed up your post, "How do we build trust with our addict? When they do what they say they are going to do. So it goes with God."<br />I think it's similar to the idea taught by Alma where he counsels us to experiment upon the word. It's like God says, not sure if I can do it? Try me! <br /><br />In my case, I'll never be able to trust that God can heal me, if I don't start casting my burdens at His feet. I'll never know if He can change my heart, if I don't offer it to Him. Step by step, we can do this!Just Me, Marleehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07991786945842670169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4105200008559051844.post-41365397182625681102012-05-03T12:54:52.085-07:002012-05-03T12:54:52.085-07:00This is the hardest part for me too. Thank you so ...This is the hardest part for me too. Thank you so much for your example and inspiration. I feel like everything you write is exactly how I feel.Faithfully Jadedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13747631504965947998noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4105200008559051844.post-20452116373042617542012-05-02T22:30:31.243-07:002012-05-02T22:30:31.243-07:00Awesome thoughts, Jane. I agree with Julie. You ha...Awesome thoughts, Jane. I agree with Julie. You have a beautiful way of expressing yourself and your spirit shines through your words.hopeandhealingadminhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04574790718087485848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4105200008559051844.post-71880447145865005512012-05-02T21:57:22.691-07:002012-05-02T21:57:22.691-07:00Jane,
I too feel the constant back and forth of tr...Jane,<br />I too feel the constant back and forth of trusting and then doubting. I seems to take a deliberate effort or decision on my part to just trust and let God guide me. I think this is one of the hardest principles to learn no matter what our struggles. Thank you for your beautiful blog. You have such a beautiful way of explaining and sharing your experience. Keep believing!Julie Hallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15657206155056383690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4105200008559051844.post-51098937955019356452012-05-02T21:27:19.743-07:002012-05-02T21:27:19.743-07:00I love reading your experience with the steps . . ...I love reading your experience with the steps . . . I'm on 2 right now, and am loving what I'm learning.<br />And I started a blog so I have somewhere to dump all my random thoughts about what I'm learning through all this: http://workingtowardshealing.blogspot.com/<br />We'll see how that goes :-)HXhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00339766387498092168noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4105200008559051844.post-47514138246952176352012-05-02T14:40:22.758-07:002012-05-02T14:40:22.758-07:00Trust is soooo big and then that trust is betrayed...Trust is soooo big and then that trust is betrayed it is even harder to regain. I like what you said about trust in God "help me know what to do and help me to endure" It is more about trusting God than it is trusting the addict, isn't it? Allot of the time I think of them the same but they are very separate. If I trust God to know what is best. It doesn't matter what my loved one chooses because he has to trust God on his own. But my Trust in God will leave me knowing what is best for myself. Even if the choice hurts to make God will make me whole. no matter what any one else does or doesn't do. Thank you! you always get me thinkingAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com