tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4105200008559051844.post2306044750728200011..comments2023-10-07T08:28:40.726-07:00Comments on Learning from My Husband's Pornography Addiction: When the Crap Hits the FanJanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15354593791540400671noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4105200008559051844.post-90524255867434163642011-11-22T16:36:26.448-08:002011-11-22T16:36:26.448-08:00It is amazing how strong we can be when we have to...It is amazing how strong we can be when we have to, huh? I'm sorry this past year has been the hardest. Seems like it should be the other way around, huh? I seem to keep discovering things when I feel like I already knew everything. Luckily the discoveries are relatively small compared to before, but we're still working through it all.Machttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16251056309107388969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4105200008559051844.post-70682829472036539282011-11-16T07:32:36.169-08:002011-11-16T07:32:36.169-08:00Oh I know this saying well.... except I use the &q...Oh I know this saying well.... except I use the "sh*#" word because that's exactly what it was! One day my life was great... we were excited for (at least I was) and trying for more children... he had finally graduated school and our life was about to begin.<br /><br />In one 40 minute conversation in just ONE day, my life was ruined. Everything I ever knew... everything I thought I had... shattered in a billion pieces. And then, after 6 weeks of denial, the most horrific and devastating discovery was finally admitted. I know that I don't know it all- even still...<br /><br />I'm divorced now so my situation/recpvery is different, but I can relate to the last paragraph... there are times I'm still cleaning up crap, hurt and pain, feelings of insecurity in those extremely far flung places. I don't think these addicts realize the seriousness and reality of the devastation their actions and choices cause. It's been almost 2 years and eventhough it's getting better, I'm still trenching through the leftover stench.<br /><br />Hang in there.... You're stronger than you know....<br /><br />XOXOXOXOXJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14459298575422538693noreply@blogger.com