tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4105200008559051844.post1696496451786519999..comments2023-10-07T08:28:40.726-07:00Comments on Learning from My Husband's Pornography Addiction: Insight part 1Janehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15354593791540400671noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4105200008559051844.post-41263278621669855302011-11-03T16:28:38.206-07:002011-11-03T16:28:38.206-07:00Anonymous--That breaks my heart. I'm so sorry ...Anonymous--That breaks my heart. I'm so sorry you are being criticized for your decision to move on. One day those who are criticizing will have an eye-opening experience and realize their mistakes. They just don't know. They think they do, but they don't. Be strong. We may not know you in person, but we're here for your support.Machttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16251056309107388969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4105200008559051844.post-4527408104411210612011-10-30T17:33:18.044-07:002011-10-30T17:33:18.044-07:00I appreciate your insights..I am in a situation wh...I appreciate your insights..I am in a situation where my husband has done awful things and is not so on board with recovery...he is emotionally abusive and blames me for his addiction and lies to me often. He says, "he's a man and attracted to women-and that seeing naked women gives him power-so that he doesn't feel inferior..." It is true-I can't tell my friends the reasons I want to divorce him-because it drags him through the mud...adn I cannot possibly explain all the feelings, all the infidelity to "prove" my course of action... or prove all the pain that leads up to the decision to divorce. So many of my friends-and people I know do not love me anymore, they often say "at least he isn't physcially abusive, or he's at making good money"-they think I am at fault for my husbands addiction...they wonder why I can't work marriage out with him. They do not see his abuse or his unwillingness to respect my boundaries and stop the emotional abuse. I wish they loved me...just loved me-instead of judging me. I hope that friend of yours who is getting a divorce can see from you that she has a friend who is trying not to judge her-and to love her unconditionally. My prayers last night were for this kind of friend.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com