tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4105200008559051844.post129384672416754392..comments2023-10-07T08:28:40.726-07:00Comments on Learning from My Husband's Pornography Addiction: What were you thinking?!Janehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15354593791540400671noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4105200008559051844.post-5565641261374911552012-06-07T14:32:08.431-07:002012-06-07T14:32:08.431-07:00Hello Jane, seems that today is the day to relate ...Hello Jane, seems that today is the day to relate to weird situations. I read this post and thought: Ugh!!!!!!!!<br /><br />OF COURSE!!! What was I thinking... I thought that maybe it was a birth defect on my husband, the stupid answer "I don´t know"... Or maybe... a country trademark of some kind (Im from Mexico) but now I see clearly, ITS NOT. <br /><br />I wish I could earn money for everytime i´ve heard it. But all i get is another crack in my heart. <br /><br />I´ll be reading you. This was helpful!!!Mechahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15643539581302833190noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4105200008559051844.post-73208214188389491102012-06-07T09:59:33.063-07:002012-06-07T09:59:33.063-07:00YYEEESSS! That answer infuriated me faster than a...YYEEESSS! That answer infuriated me faster than anything else in the world. I remember wanting to knock on his head, see if there was really anything in there. I suppose it's a male/female difference I need to work on getting more patient with, because I certainly have an answer for everything! So "I don't know" literally doesn't make sense to me.Chantelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01285715619510125647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4105200008559051844.post-20224749133417771842012-06-07T09:31:30.876-07:002012-06-07T09:31:30.876-07:00"i dont know" is the most infuriating an..."i dont know" is the most infuriating answer to questions that seem to have no real answer. I guess when I ask I'm just looking for some moment of conscience. The homer analogy is probably the truth. There is no thought process that leads them to their addiction. I like the way you said that. Genius Jane!<br /><br />Looking fwd to your co-post!Scabshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13738638161899826056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4105200008559051844.post-12646334378562906552012-06-06T21:25:15.257-07:002012-06-06T21:25:15.257-07:00Yes I raised my hand. And I laughed while I did i...Yes I raised my hand. And I laughed while I did it, because you are right, WE'VE ALL BEEN THERE! I think I've given up on asking though because I realize that there is no logic. There will never be an answer that satisfies me or makes me think, oh, well that's justifiable then. Thanks for being "our" voice and making me see once again I am not alone. <br />And I love that thinking about our commonalities brings on smiles -- I'm so glad we have a safe place to share. Addiction doesn't have to lurk in shadows. We win.Marleehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02081458884731101084noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4105200008559051844.post-64489690745544811592012-06-06T20:26:29.467-07:002012-06-06T20:26:29.467-07:00Um, can I raise my hand a billion times? I am SO t...Um, can I raise my hand a billion times? I am SO tired of hearing "I don't know" in response to practically every question I ask that requires any sort of thought. Ugh. I'm looking forward to your co-post.Machttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16251056309107388969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4105200008559051844.post-53484574395926097882012-06-06T09:28:07.733-07:002012-06-06T09:28:07.733-07:00I have heard this many times before too :-)
We a...I have heard this many times before too :-) <br />We are finding that those most painful conversations are the most healing too . . .HXhttp://workingtowardshealing.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4105200008559051844.post-66904125829051821782012-06-06T09:18:30.291-07:002012-06-06T09:18:30.291-07:00oh, I have heard it so many times. I think you are...oh, I have heard it so many times. I think you are right, the issue isn't what were thinking? but why weren't you thinking?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com