tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4105200008559051844.post108462728009098797..comments2023-10-07T08:28:40.726-07:00Comments on Learning from My Husband's Pornography Addiction: The Arbitrary LineJanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15354593791540400671noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4105200008559051844.post-17410879038761766822012-09-12T09:15:03.965-07:002012-09-12T09:15:03.965-07:00Very much the question in my heart. It seems that ...Very much the question in my heart. It seems that the only problem he sees is that it hurts me, but that isn't enough to make it stop......<br />DesAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4105200008559051844.post-76602646997656922252012-09-06T22:09:48.964-07:002012-09-06T22:09:48.964-07:00Amen, Scabs !
Your ending question is my dilemma,...Amen, Scabs !<br /><br />Your ending question is my dilemma, almost daily. Shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09137199568556410466noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4105200008559051844.post-13903817785303506502012-09-05T22:51:32.261-07:002012-09-05T22:51:32.261-07:00p.s. yes!!! to the pictures. p.s. yes!!! to the pictures. Scabshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13738638161899826056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4105200008559051844.post-49392133890287793062012-09-05T22:50:58.679-07:002012-09-05T22:50:58.679-07:00i really think this is the big conundrum. Detach?...i really think this is the big conundrum. Detach? <br /><br />Although, I what I did for years was, get mad, bitter, ignore, join in, leave the church, beg, threaten and just about anything else in between.<br /><br />those were rough years.<br /><br />how do you hang onto something someone else doesn't seem invested in?Scabshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13738638161899826056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4105200008559051844.post-81532277094987726412012-09-05T21:34:42.983-07:002012-09-05T21:34:42.983-07:00Amazing post as always, Jane ! I think for me per...Amazing post as always, Jane ! I think for me personally it finally meant showing my husband I was no longer going to shove this under the rug. I DO take this seriously. I go to a 12 Step group (have done this before but threw the towel in after less than 6 months I think), seeking counseling for myself, starting to set boundaries, and trying to change me. Really change me. And it's a SLOW process. And I don't think he takes my efforts seriously yet. But I think in time (at least I hope) he will. And just maybe - that will help change his heart.Shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09137199568556410466noreply@blogger.com